They have rules for you. Secret ones.
A list of things you should do. Ways you should act. Rules you should follow.
But they won't tell you what's on it.
They want you to guess.
Ask what's wrong?
"Nothing."
Keep trying to figure it out?
"I'm fine."
You tiptoe around them. Second-guess yourself. Overthink everything. Try harder to win their approval.
Stop.
You'll go crazy playing this game. Reading minds and solving problems they won't (or can't) explain.
Cut it out:
- Don't play along
- Don't match their mood
- Don't waste time guessing
When someone is passive aggressive? Call it out or walk away.
You're not here to decipher other people's problems.
You're here to level up.
Be direct. Expect direct back. Refuse to play their game.
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P.s. Define your higher and lower self for success, happiness and 24/7 high energy. Here's how.
