My friend Tom wants to find his life partner and he asked for my help.
“Describe her to me.”
Details ensued. Physical features, career success, a specific mindset. Wants kids. Doesn’t want drama. Funny and independent.
Great.
But what kind of guy is she looking for?
“What’s on her list?”
I asked Tom to imagine his dream life partner had a list too. Of her dream life partner.
What was on it?
Was he an energetic match?
This is simple.
To get a high value woman. Be a high value man.
To get a game changing client, be a game changing supplier.
To be invited to exclusive places, be an exclusive kind of person.
To become a singer, sing.
To become a writer, write.
To become a creator, create.
Become an energetic match for everything you want. Then it finds you.
You can’t show up to a date with a 10/10 person and bring your 5/10 jokes.
Only the best sports people compete at the best sporting events.
You win the big breaks from your portfolio. Your past work predicts your ceiling.
Energetic matches. Everywhere.
Arrive as an equal to join forces.
Arrive as a hopeful to be turned down.
Are you an energetic match for your dreams?