Most of us want to think and act bigger, but we don’t always know how. Stock image sites tell us that "dreaming big" means climbing a hill, looking out over the land and throwing our arms up in the air.
If only it was that simple.
It’s not simply a case of clicking our fingers and elevating our ambition and actions. Dreaming bigger starts with a few exercises that lead to a new way of thinking. Practising this consistently turns it into a habit. Once you’re in the habit of dreaming bigger, and taking action to match, there’s no stopping you.
Here are 36 ways to think and act bigger:
- Make audacious requests and play the rejection game
- Don’t do anything that someone else could do
- Visualize your biggest dreams coming true
- Try to be more weird, not less weird
- Be intentional about your networking
- Name your two versions and always be the best one
- Be less responsive to everyone
- Do things that make you feel uncomfortable
- Remind yourself of your mortality
- Care more about being exceptional than being liked
- Hang out with people who also think big
- Remember the easiest road has the least to offer
- Recognise limiting beliefs and old thought patterns
- Don’t mistake something feeling right for it simply feeling familiar
- Embrace the unknown instead of being scared of it
- Move to a new place and immerse yourself in a new way of living
- Let go of some of your goals and repurpose the energy into fewer
- Understand what triggers you so it doesn’t hold you back
- Stop consuming television, commentary and other media
- Maintain a high energy state with the entrepreneurs energy score
- Read the books that billionaires read
- Recognise when you’re going after what someone else has
- Create more blank space in your calendar
- Know what really drives you to act
- Aim to be the least interesting person in the room
- Decide what you’re not going to care about
- Never go back to where former versions of you hung out
- Journal about who you are and what you want
- Raise your standards in every area
- Run some dreaming bigger thought experiments
- Identify and let go of what you’re holding onto
- Ask, “What am I capable of?”
- Consciously select your conversation topics
- Journal about what’s in the gap between who you are and who you want to be
- Get over imposter syndrome
- Run the last day on earth test
Which of these do you already do, and which could be worth a try? Select a few that resonate, commit to action and see what kind of difference they make.